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🌀🐇 #317 co-authors with life, a spa day in the void, tune into birdsong
Plus why modern life is so exhausting
⚡️ Enlightening Bolts
🦉 Why Wonder Is the Antidote to Everything: Erin O’Connor traces a mysterious shriek in the night to a barn owl, and from that “wonder bolt” builds the case that wonder quiets our stress, loosens our certainty and may be the cure for a culture suffering from “wonder deficit disorder.” Read it here.
🌀 Spa Day in the Void: Alexandra Heller, a lifelong striver, agrees to spend one offline day a week in the woods, gets heckled by her ancestors, and drifts backward past the Big Bang into the Great Void before coming home with a new reverence for her own bones. Read it here.
🐦 Learn to Tune Into Birdsong: David M Logue, who studies how birds communicate, shows how listening deeply to the dawn chorus becomes a kind of meditation, one where you simply open your ears and let each song arrive on its own until, as he puts it, “I disappeared entirely.” Read it here.
🎇 Image of The Week

The Marble Chapel. On the shore of Lake General Carrera in Chilean Patagonia, thousands of years of lapping water have hollowed a ridge of marble into caverns, columns and tunnels. The stone keeps its swirls of grey and blue, and the glacier-fed lake below glows an almost impossible turquoise. Photo by LBM1948, CC BY-SA 4.0. See it on Wikimedia Commons.
⚾️ Life’s Curveballs
We can build perfect plans with precise details and the exact steps we need to take.
But life can always introduce a variable when we didn’t expect that tosses our perfect blueprints out the window.
These are life’s curveballs.
They can come in the shape of a loss or a gain.
We can never know when these things will happen but they always do.
No one is immune from broken expectations and interrupted plans.
And yes, it’s a noble act to author your own story instead of solely acting from what you’ve inherited.
But as we seize our agency and make empowered choices it would be wise to remember that we are not simply the authors of our lives.
We are co-authors with life.
Events can arise that change the entire direction of our narratives.
The curveballs are coming.
But don’t let that stop you from aiming high and advancing in the direction of your dreams.
Sometimes these curveballs turn out to be exactly what was needed.
By pushing us in directions we could have never envisioned, we become more than we could have ever imagined.
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🪫 Meant to Be Lived
Consider this assessment from Jason Lee Daniel:
Modern exhaustion isn’t from working too hard. It’s from never being allowed to stop.
Every hobby needs to make money. Every skill needs a market. Every experience needs to be content. Every free moment gets treated like a problem that needs to be optimized.
It’s exhausting.
You can’t even enjoy a walk without someone telling you to start a podcast. Can’t learn a skill without being told to monetize it. Can’t sit still without feeling like you’re falling behind.
We’ve created a world where being alive, it’s not enough. You have to constantly prove your value.
And for what? More views? More followers? More numbers on a screen?
No wonder people are angry. No wonder people are burnt out.
The human mind wasn’t built to turn every part of life into a performance. Some things were never meant to be measured. They were meant to be lived.
🤓 Learn This Word
Komorebi: Japanese for sunlight filtering through the leaves of trees, written with the characters for tree (ki), leaking through (more) and sun (hi). It names the dappled, shifting light on a forest floor, and the quiet pleasure of stopping long enough to notice it.
🕸️ From Around The Web
The Meaning of Maturity: Ursula K. Le Guin on What It Really Takes to Grow Up

“It is not merely a matter of growing bones and growing responsibilities, this business of growing up, this unfinishable project of becoming ourselves. It is less like the evolutionary diagram of the upright ape than like a Russian nesting doll, our prior selves not outgrown but integrated, forever dwelling inside the person walking this world today.
[…]
I believe that maturity is not an outgrowing, but a growing up: that an adult is not a dead child, but a child who survived. I believe that all the best faculties of a mature human being exist in the child, and that if these faculties are encouraged in youth they will act well and wisely in the adult, but if they are repressed and denied in the child they will stunt and cripple the adult personality.
[…]
For fantasy is true, of course. It isn’t factual, but it is true. Children know that. Adults know it, too, and that is precisely why many of them are afraid of fantasy. They know that its truth challenges, even threatens, all that is false, all that is phony, unnecessary, and trivial in the life they have let themselves be forced into living. They are afraid of dragons because they are afraid of freedom.”
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