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๐๐ #297 looking closely, pixel in a picture, yoga of listening
Plus Unlearning Adulthood
โก๏ธ Enlightening Bolts
๐ On the Yoga of Listening: A practice primer. Read it here.
๐ Loving Kindness: Beautifully produce meditation from Tara Brach and Vivian Koch. Listen here.
๐ผ๏ธ Life is a Picture, But You Live in a Pixel: So obvious, so hard to remember. Read it here.
๐ Image of The Week

From Emily Wick: โI have been photographing soap bubbles against the night sky every night for years.
Reminiscent of creatures from the deep sea, a distant galaxy, or the slide of a microscope, they are lit up only by a cameraโs flash and ambient outdoor lighting. They are colorful because of the iridescence of the bubble.
For more about the story behind the project, read Satellites of Soap.โ
๐คฉ Unlearning Adulthood
I've made a habit of splitting synonyms and uncovering nuance between words typically treated as identical in meaning.
Today these words are Adulthood and Maturity.
(The caveat here is that these definitions may not be what is typically agreed upon but that's not the point. The point is to allow yourself to sense the subtlety that these distinctions afford).
Adulthood is the culturally prescribed path of growth where one leaves their child-like wonder behind as they "grow up" in pursuit of some contortion that allows them to contribute to the economy.
Maturity integrates child-like wonder into the basic functioning of life never feeling like the mystery has been solved and that the world can be contained into a model that has been taught.
Maturity recognizes the responsibility that needs to be seized to move beyond childhood but doesn't leave the wisdom of childhood behind.
According to these definitions, I would suggest that it is admirable to mature but adulthood is a mutation of maturity forced upon you by a culture that needs you to participate in upholding its structures.
Unlearn adulthood. Become mature.
๐ณ Between The Trees
Enjoy this line of inquiry from Matt Allyn:
โMy brother shared this Zen concept with me that gives me chills every time I think about it.
Next time you are on a walk, imagine your life as two trees.
The first tree is the day you are born, and the next tree on your walk is the day you die.
Now, how slowly would you walk, knowing every step takes you closer to that second tree?
How much would you cherish every single step?
How much would you appreciate the breeze, the birds, the grass, and other people crossing your path?
Would you actually learn to fall in love with your hardest days, knowing that pain is an unavoidable and inevitable part of life, and not something to run from or escape, because that only gets you closer to the second tree sooner?
Would you learn to appreciate getting stuck in traffic?
Would you relish the moment your mom asks you for help adding photos to her digital picture frame?
What would it feel like to fall in love with the sound of your coffee filling up your mug, and to immerse yourself in the awe and wonder, knowing you have no idea how many more of these you have left?
There is nowhere to rush off to be.
Life is here right now, in the challenge, the pain, the lightness, the love, and my favorite, the excitement of creation.
If you really love what you do, then this is the doing it.
This is the fun part of life.
These are the steps between the trees.โ
๐ค Learn This Word
Oneirataxia: The inability to distinguish between fantasy and reality
๐ธ๏ธ From Around The Web
Swimming and the Meaning of Life

โLooking closely at dang near anything might very well be the key to it all.1With that in mind, Iโve been trying to get better at this, this deceptively simple act of looking closer.
By dint of pandemic stasis, I suspect weโve all gotten better at closer looking. Perhaps youโve noticed the subtle slant of the floor of the room in which youโve been stuck for months on end, or the daily rhythms of that one old dude on your neighborhood block that youโve now walked around a million times. Maybe you noticed how exhausted you are by video calls, but in noticing that you recognized that itโs really the audio delays and wonky noise cancellation that makes video so stressful.2 Perhaps you noticed how different countries handled the pandemic (how could you not), and from that you recognized the flaws and strengths of the varied responses, and in that the cracks in social systems that we hitherto took for granted.
The point being: Looking closely is valuable at every scale. From looking closely at a sentence, a photograph, a building, a government. It scales and it cascades โ one cognizant detail begets another and then another. Suddenly youโve traveled very far from that first little: Huh.
Iโd say that that huh is the foundational block of curiosity. To get good at the huh is to get good at both paying attention and nurturing compassion; if you donโt notice, you canโt give a shit. But the huh is only half the equation. You gotta go huh, alright โ the โalright,โ the follow-up, the openness to what comes next is where the cascade lives. Itโs the sometimes-sardonic, sometimes-optimistic engine driving the next huh and so on and so forth.โ
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