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🌀🐇 #244 embracing sacred mystery, when spirituality goes wrong, 9 life lessons

Plus The 8 Inner Conflicts That Shape Who We Are

⚡️ Enlightening Bolts

❤️‍🔥 Falling Madly In Love With Existence: Radical empiricism and the path to embracing sacred mystery. Read it here.

🤔 9 Insightful Life Lessons: Listen to comedian Tim Minchin package some uncommon wisdom with some laughs at this underrated commencement speech. Watch it here.

😬 When Spiritual Seeking Goes Wrong: Sometimes, the need for validation gets tied up in the search for a spiritual identity. Read it here.

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🎇 Image of The Week

The striking "blue lava" seen at Indonesia’s Kawah Ijen volcano is not actually molten rock but the result of ignited sulfuric gases. These gases, heated to temperatures up to 600°C, combust when exposed to oxygen, creating vivid blue flames that appear to flow down the mountainside and are especially visible at night. This glowing effect comes from a process called electronic excitation, where burning sulfur atoms emit blue light. Kawah Ijen is also home to the world’s largest acidic crater lake and a dangerous sulfur mining operation, making it both a natural wonder and a place of human endurance.

 🪂 Packing The Parachute

The experiences you're having and the lessons you're learning won't always make sense in the moment.

It won't always be clear how your struggles fit into the grand scheme of things.

The pain might feel pointless. The plot twist could seem as if it has thrown you completely off course.

During those times remember this…

These moments are like packing a parachute.

It can feel confining. There are creases everywhere. The full pattern is obscured and the thing doesn't seem to be fulfilling its purpose and function.

But one day you may find yourself in the middle of a leap of faith, falling at high speeds at the pinnacle of uncertainty and intensity.

And suddenly, like magic, the ripcord gets pulled and the parachute opens.

Revealing it's full pattern. Realizing it's full purpose.

And as you sail on the winds of astonishment, grateful for the thrill of being alive…

You'll understand precisely why things happened the way they did.

😣 Psychological Modernism

Sit with these words from Author Thomas Moore:

“One day I would like to make up my own DSM-111 with a list of “disorders” I have seen in my practice. For example, I would want to include the diagnosis “psychological modernism,” an uncritical acceptance of the values of the modern world. It includes blind faith in technology, inordinate attachment to material gadgets and conveniences, uncritical acceptance of the march of scientific progress, devotion to the electronic media, and a life-style dictated by advertising.”

“You have to make your own world, instead of succumbing to the one that presses on you. You have to turn the tables on what appears to be fate or the full weight of society. Against the greatest odds, you have to keep your wits about you and refuse to surrender to anyone or anything less than divine.”

🤓 Learn This Word

Temenos: A term employed by Carl Jung to refer to a sacred space that serves as symbolic, psychological container where deep inner work and transformation can occur.

⏳ From The Archives

A hand-picked link from a previous edition of 🌀🐇

Erik Erikson’s Stages of Psychological Development: The 8 Inner Conflicts That Shape Who We Are

It never ceases to stagger that some stroke of chance in the early history of the universe set into motion the Rube Goldberg machine of events that turned atoms born in the first stars into you — into this temporary clump of borrowed stardust that, for the brief interlude between not having existed and no longer existing, gets to have ideas and ice cream and orgasms, gets to yearn and to suffer and to love.

Perhaps the most hopeful thing about being alive is that we are never finished and complete. Perhaps the most exasperating is that we are never entirely new, that we are nested with every self we have ever been, each stage of our development shaped by the singular needs and tensions of each preceding stage, our character shaped by how those needs and tensions were met and resolved.

The influential psychoanalyst Erik Erikson (June 15, 1902–May 12, 1994), who coined the term identity crisis and readily recognized that “an individual life is the accidental coincidence of but one life cycle with but one segment of history,” took up this tessellated question of our incremental becoming in his 1950 book Childhood and Society — an investigation of “the growth and the crises of the human person as a series of alternative basic attitudes.”

Erikson identifies eight sequential stages of human development, each marked by a particular battery of opposite psychic charges — one a positive developmental achievement that strengthens one’s self-trust, world-trust, and creative potency, the other a danger that fosters antagonism, isolation, and despair. He writes:

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